Leo - 2

Dear Leonaids,

 

Few more days have past since my last letter. Life is moving bit by bit in morsel. Every second stretches itself up to possible extent. Sometimes being suffocating enough!!

 But it is the beauty of life, isn't it?

You meet people everyday, some  are attractive, some are selfless, some are cute. You like some person, you crushed on some one. Then by chance you meet some one who seems like the one for you. You fall in love, live all your fantasies. Life goes happily.

 And suddenly your beginner's luck ends. The great villain , "the circumstance " shows up. He takes the driving seat. Put you at test .

 And do you know? The intensity of the test depends upon your "claims" or "commitments" you have uttered during your  courtship.

It is the fate of every long lasting relationship! Because you value only those things which you have earned . But the silver lining on the cloud is that you suddenly realise that you are not the same person you were before. Although your outer remains same but you have been touched by divinity by then. You realise that you have matured enough in few months time.

It is not you who are at the test but it is your love. For the sake of your love you have to hang to on.

Do not lose hope. Never retreat .

Remember the golden words of the alchemist-

"When you really want something, the universe always conspires in your favour."

 

I will write you soon. Till then-

Eat, Sleep, love & do not loose faith.

 

Yours and only yours,

 Virgin

 

P.S. I Love you

Faith

Found this on net. I do not know whether it is true or not but must read.
Sorry for the inferior quality.
Now I start copy paste........


"This is a real argument.

Don’t miss even a single word…. It’s Too good.. An atheist professor of philosophy speaks to his class on the problem science has with God, The Almighty. He asks one of his new students to stand and…..

Prof: So you believe in God?Student: Absolutely, sir.
Prof: Is God good?
Student: Sure.
Prof: Is God all-powerful?
Student: Yes..
Prof: My brother died of cancer even though he prayed to God to heal him. Most of us would attempt to help others who are ill. But God didn’t. How is this God good then? Hmm?
(Student is silent.)
Prof: You can’t answer, can you? Let’s start again, young fella. Is God good?
Student: Yes.
Prof: Is Satan good?
Student: No.
Prof: Where does Satan come from?
Student: From….God…
Prof: That’s right. Tell me son, is there evil in this world?
Student: Yes.
Prof: Evil is everywhere, isn’t it? And God did make everything. Correct?
Student: Yes.

Prof: So who created evil?
(Student does not answer.)
Prof: Is there sickness? Immorality? Hatred? Ugliness? All these terrible things exist in the world, don’t they?
Student: Yes, sir.
Prof: So, who created them?
(Student has no answer.)
Prof: Science says you have 5 senses you use to identify and observe the world around you. Tell me, son…Have you ever seen God?
Student: No, sir.
Prof: Tell us if you have ever heard your God?
Student: No, sir.
Prof: Have you ever felt your God, tasted your God, smelt your God? Have you ever had any sensory perception of God for that matter?
Student: No, sir. I’m afraid I haven’t.
Prof: Yet you still believe in Him?
Student: Yes.
Prof: According to empirical, testable, demonstrable protocol, science says your GOD
doesn’t exist.What do you say to that, son?
Student: Nothing. I only have my faith.
Prof: Yes. Faith. And that is the problem science has.
Student: Professor, is there such a thing as heat?
Prof: Yes.
Student: And is there such a thing as cold?
Prof: Yes.
Student: No sir. There isn’t.
 
(The lecture the after becomes very quiet with this turn of events.)


Student: Sir, you can have lots of heat, even more heat, superheat, mega heat, white heat, a little heat or no heat.. But we don’t have anything called cold. We can hit 458 degrees below zero which is no heat, but we can’t go any further after that. There is no such thing as cold. Cold is only a word we use to describe the absence of heat. We cannot measure cold. Heat is energy Cold is not the opposite of heat, sir, just the absence of it .







(There is pin-drop silence in the lecture theatre.)




Student: What about darkness, Professor? Is there such a thing as darkness?
Prof: Yes. What is night if there isn’t darkness?
Student : You’re wrong again, sir. Darkness is the absence of something. You can have low light, normal light, bright light, flashing light…..But if you have no light constantly, you have nothing and it’s called darkness, isn’t it? In reality, darkness isn’t. If it were you would be able to make darkness darker, wouldn’t you?
Prof: So what is the point you are making, young man?
Student: Sir, my point is your philosophical premise is flawed.
Prof: Flawed? Can you explain how?
Student: Sir, you are working on the premise of duality. You argue there is life and then there is death, a good God and a bad God. You are viewing the concept of God as something finite, something we can measure. Sir, science can’t even explain a thought.. It uses electricity and magnetism, but has never seen, much less fully understood either one. To view death as the opposite of life is to be ignorant of the fact that death cannot exist as a substantive thing. Death is
not the opposite of life: just the absence of it.
Now tell me, Professor. Do you teach your students that they evolved from a monkey?
Prof: If you are referring to the natural evolutionary process, yes, of course, I do.
Student: Have you ever observed evolution with your own eyes, sir?
(The Professor shakes his head with a smile, beginning to realize where the argument is going.)Student: Since no one has ever observed the process of evolution at work and cannot even prove that this process is an on-going endeavour, are you not teaching your opinion, sir? Are you not a scientist but a preacher? (The class is in uproar.)

Student: Is there anyone in the class who has ever seen the Professor’s brain?
(The class breaks out into laughter.)
Student : Is there anyone here who has ever heard the Professor’s brain, felt it, touched or smelt it? No one appears to have done so. So, according to the established rules of empirical, stable, demonstrable protocol, science says that you have no brain, sir. With all due respect, sir, how do we then trust your lectures, sir?
(The room is silent. The professor stares at the student, his face unfathomable.)
Prof: I guess you’ll have to take them on faith, son.Student: That is it sir… The link between man & god is FAITH . That is all that keeps things moving & alive.

….this is a true story, and the student was none other than …….

APJ Abdul Kalam, the former President of India."






 

Leo 1

Dear Leonaids

 

It has been a long time since we have not talked. I do not know what to do now. But for the past few days I am sensing a deep trouble for you. You know our heart were connected and they are still connected. My heart reciprocates every beat of your heart as like my heart is giving answer to your heart.

I had to write publically, hoping that you might notice this. My heart is not allowing me to be at rest, it keeps on reminding me about you. I know you will not answer my questions straight. Because  it is your inherent stubbornness that does not allow you show your felling to other. You feel you may look weak someone may harm you by knowing your weakness.

But, I know you as surely as I breathe. Because deep inside you lives a small girl who is yearning for unconditional  love, wanting to be relied upon someone, dropping  your head to someone's shoulder.

You keep on  saying that you do not love me anymore but in your response there is a deep sorrow. That can not come alone from a break up. You are hiding something from me. It is your bad habit. You are not going to tell me unless you want but I tell you , you can not fool me by your acting like.

 

I am restless. I want to do something but right now I can only pray for god.

 

I have too much to write but my mind becomes paralysed the moment I think about you. I will write you soon.

 

Yours and only yours,

 

Virgin

 

P.S. I love you.

Marriage.

 

 

“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.

So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you.

If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.”

After marriage

 



 

After Marriage

 

 

Never sleep on an angry word.
Never make the other feel absurd.

Always believe in each other's dreams.
Keep communication flowing like a stream.

Speak to each other with a tender heart.
Remember each day how you felt at the start.

Treat each other with kindness and respect.
Love grows only with care not neglect.

Never forget a special day.
Never miss a chance to say,

All the good things that you feel,
A loving kiss can always heal.

Desire should make you swoon,
Each and everyday should be a honeymoon.

Nothing can ever be more important than your lover.
Never give a passionate thought to any other.

To make love last for all eternity,
The "ME" must become "WE".

When your heart is full of affection,
Love will always know the right direction.

 

-Anonymous

Tadka Mar Ke!!!

Caution: Do not weigh  following article in terms of Politics. Just enjoy it !!!

 

One interesting case study for behavioural science lovers:

Britten had boycotted Mr. Modi for a long time till now. Now consider it as Modi effect or British policy to strengthen bilateral ties with regional mammoths for future diplomacy. A surprise visit came  from British envoy Jmaes Bron recently. Some interesting facts came out from the photographs taken during this meet.

 

During his visit Mr. Baron quoted, " UK is endorsing Gujarat not Mr. Modi."

 

We all know that people always do not mean what they say. We have to keep an  eye on their subtle signals also. But to search for something we should know what we are looking for. So in the jargons of Behavioural science it is told with terms like verbal and nonverbal communication.

In a nutshell, some facts for handshakes in non verbal communication are as follows:

 

1) The handshake is a way a man could cement commercial deal with each other.

 

2) From the style of handshake the expert can read dominance, submission or equality in the relation.

 

3)These attitudes are send and received unnoticed but they covertly controls the outcome.

4) When two world leader or say power person meet you could see power struggle between them in their hand shakes.

5) When leaders are posing for photographs like this,the thumb rule to win power struggle is to stay on the left side. The person who stands on left side is perceived by the viewers the dominant one. These are the results obtained by scientists after numbers of experiments.

6) Double hander handshake - This handshake is done to take control over receiver's right hand to gain power control. It increases physical contact.

This type of handshake is mostly used when someone you trust or some friend you meet. When used on a person just met it feels the receiver's mind with suspicious about your intentions. And the other person might feel at unease.

This can be consider as miniature hug.

Now, back to business:

Look at this photograph, The expression on Shri Nrendra Modi's face and James Baron's, it looks like they found a repo between them and they share a instant connection. It also sends message that you are important to me.

Now, in this photograph James Baron looks uninterested so I thought he might be tired because of hectic schedule.

He looked like an alien in the meeting.

 

 

 

 



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EMyxCmGuz-8&feature=player_detailpage

Watch this video and just study James Baron's expressions also Shri Arjun Modhwadia tried a double hander.

Hope, you enjoyed it.
 

Poems

I am not a poet that's why I am fascinated to poems.

 

I always wonder how a person can write his feelings in phrases!!! So this is a tribute to the all the poets who mould their feelings in to stanzas of poems. Hats off to them!!

I am not claiming any right over these poems. I just like them and collected it from net. If any person feels uncomfortable please contact me I will remove it.

When you’re near me,
I close my eyes
I want to feel you by my side.
When you kiss me, I close my eyes
Want you by my side
When I realize, there’s no telling lies
Then I know it I’m in a lifetime
Making love to you
Every time it’s new
You know you’re my once in a lifetime.
When you touch me I burn inside
Cold hot chill went down my spine
When you take me so high above
Can’t get enough
Once in a lifetime
Giving all I’ve got
Love me love me not
You’re my once in a lifetime
Taking care of you
Everytime it’s new
I need you more than once in a lifetime!...............

 

--Anonymous